Thursday, April 5, 2012

Will the belly button pop? and the Baby Owner's Manual

Hello lovelies.  I'm gonna drop right into it. 

Our pool has been drained and refilled, and amazingly enough, it's blue water and not green!  YAY!  Our a/c blower has been fixed and we have air again!  Feels like we're finally on the road to being a calm household again.  Whew!

Now, about the belly button.  I've always had a very deep belly button.  Now, it is almost flat, maybe even has a little bump to it.  So Belly Button Watch 2012 is on!  We keep waiting for it to pop.  I've heard when it pops, that means baby is ready to make her debut!

Here's the photo of when we took out the belly button ring months ago!

And here's the photo I took this morning of my belly button. 

Do you think it will pop? Anyone want to place a bet?

I've heard of many new parents wanting a manual for how to raise baby and of course there are probably a slew of books out there but I think I actually found the Owner's Manual that should have been out there years ago.  There's even one for Mom and one for Dad.


Now it has a lot of the really important stuff in it like...
 ...changing a diaper.  The best part is that it is all in pictures with words. 

And there's fun stuff too, like....

....how for Dad to be good to Mom and how to give Mom a break!

They are books that I actually think we'll get some use out of.  So, there is a manual for how to raise a baby! YAY, and just in time for me!!!

Alright, time to go lay down.  Have a great day folks.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Baptism

Hello Bleeps...are you feeling lucky this week?  Look, you've had 2 posts already and here's number 3!  I'm trying to stock up because there might be a blackout period after Reese is born! 

I was raised Traditional Catholic.  We went to church every Sunday.  I was baptized, had my first communion and was confirmed.  However, when college rolled around I kind of backed away from the every Sunday ritual.  Mostly, because going on Saturday night and getting home after 2 am, didn't allow me to get up for church on Sunday, plus go to work too!  I've never backed away from God though.  I would still attend Mass with my parents on Christmas, etc.

J and I were not married in the Catholic church, and while he was brought up to believe in God, he wasn't really taught about God and the bible. So he wasn't baptized, etc. 

When we started to try to get pregnant, oh 6 years ago, I knew in my heart that our babes would need to be baptized.   But deep down I was a little worried.  I didn't want to force J to do anything he wasn't entirely comfortable with, but I also didn't want to sacrifice my dreams because he didn't have them too.

Well, we started the conversation probably in the middle of IVF, because I remember crying...not because of what he was saying, but because of all the crazy meds I was on.  I was investigating churches that were less traditional than the one I was raised in.  I found some that I liked, but I wasn't sure J would like them.  Then...we moved clear across town, so all the churches I liked were WAY out of the way.  And things got busy and my search stopped.

Finally, my Mom, knowing my wants happened upon a church that was 10 minutes from our new house and very relaxed.  For instance, the priest has a pony tail and a handlebar mustache.  I think he looks like an actor, but I can't place who.  So I attempted it one evening.  And I asked people that I knew.  Lo and behold, not only did some friends and acquaintances already attend there, but they had for years and years.  So I continued to go.

I finally got to speak to the head priest one evening quickly after church.  It'd been very hot in the church that evening, and I had to pull out the fan that MBM's sister gave me after I got preggo.  I shook the priest's hand after mass and he said (with a heavy Irish accent), "you're just a furnace, aren't ya?"  Mind you, this was about a month ago, so I was very pregnant.  I laughed and nodded.  Then I said, "who do I need to talk to about baptism?"  He laughed, patted my belly, and said, "we usually do that AFTER the baby is born lass!" then laughed again.  I laughed.  And finally he said, "just call the office.  We'll get it done."

Well, I was still nervous.  I mean, what would I do if they said we needed to be remarried in the Catholic church and all kinds of other hoops?  I would be devastated.  So I put it off and put it off.  Finally, I knew I had to do it.  So I called and left a message for the right person, so I was told.  She called back at a time when I couldn't talk and we agreed I'd call her back Thursday.

When I called back, she was an angel.  She asked my name, when I was due, J's name, etc.  I told her I had been raised Catholic but J had not been.  Her response floored me...."So?"  I told her we hadn't been married in the Catholic church.  Again, she said, "And that matters to the baby why?"  We talked about how they do it and if we had chosen Godparents yet.  It's tentatively set for June.  I got off the phone and literally had a huge sigh of relief.  This will be okay.  Reese will be baptized and all will be well with the world.

J and I talked about it that evening, and he was very happy to hear what I had heard too.  We discussed Godparents and came up with the names of who we think would do well.  I even asked one on Friday, and she was, well, how do you say, excited a lot?!  Anyway, my heart is now calm.  And this too shall work.  YAY!

Problem solved.  Whew!

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Changes....and to miss?

Hello Bleeps!

So obviously many things have changed over the last 9 months, but here's a couple that made me giggle.

Before I was pregnant, I usually wore low-rise jeans.  Now that' I'm pregnant, the higher the waistband of my jeans is, the happier I am!

Even though I am 38 weeks pregnant, whenever someone comes at me with a camera, I still try to suck in my belly.  However, now it's not going anywhere anymore!

Things I thought I was settled on are now not so settled...for instance, daycare!

I used to fantasize about wonderful shoes to purchase...now I just fantasize about shoes that fit and finding daycare we can afford and that isn't across town.  And that my feet will go back their original size after this baby is born, so I don't have to part with my shoe collection!

I have either developed a hole in my lip with this pregnancy or I've always dropped a lot of things out of my mouth, but they've always hit the counter in the past, whereas now I'm catching them with my belly!  I'm talking food and toothpaste!


What I will miss....what I won't miss 
I will miss....
1. The attention.  After Reese is born, I have a feeling she'll be the center of attention and that's great.  But it has been nice to get random smiles in the grocery store (one lady actually complimented me on "matching" so well at this stage of the game the other day - so random) and people falling over themselves to help me whether I need it or not.

2. The baby movement in my belly.  I know J thinks it is creepy, but it really is very cool and only will happen when there is one in there!  Even when she kicks my kidneys and makes me run for the bathroom!  It's just such a special thing!

3. Having a reason to indulge my cravings.  While I've been eating pretty healthy during this pregnancy, there definitely have been moments (or weeks!) of weakness where vegetables just didn't sound good.  After Reese comes out, we'll be trying to get this baby weight off.  I even asked Dr. OB if she could do some liposuction while she was in there.  And surprisingly enough, I wasn't the first preggo to have asked her that she said!

I will not miss....
1. Going to the bathroom and 5 minutes later going again!

2. Thrusting myself out of bed because I just can't sit up.  (Turning over these days feels like a three-point turn sometimes!!)

3. My cankles - and swollen feet - hurting when I finally get out of bed.  How come when I am home, I don't get so swollen, but the minute I go to work (on the 7th floor), I swell up like a balloon?

4. Trying to get comfortable - in bed, at my desk, wherever.  I'm fine for a few minutes, but then I need to move.  Thus, sleep sometimes eludes me while I find my optimal position.

5. My Carpal tunnel!  Will not miss this in the least bit!

6. Getting tired really easily.  I know that this will continue once she's born but for a very different reason.  I can get 10 hours of sleep now, and I still wake up tired because it was a restless night of changing positions and my body working hard to make sure Reese is healthy.

7.  Burping every 20 minutes!  I am a burping machine right now!

I thought there would be more, but I'm at a loss for other things.  So this will have to do. :)

Sunday, April 1, 2012

38 weeks

Here we are Bleeps.  38 weeks.  2 weeks to go...well, actually about 11 days!  Who could have guessed this last April?  Not me for one!  But here we are.  And here's the 38 week update!  My notes are in red.

Week 38 of Pregnancy
Your baby is producing surfactant, which will help him take those first breaths while you're producing colostrum, the precursor to breast milk.  I asked Dr. OB if having the C-section before week 40 would affect my milk and she said no.  Once the placenta is out, that is kind of the sign to the body to start production.

Your Baby in Week 38 of Pregnancy
Hey, your little one isn't so little anymore, weighing close to seven pounds and measuring 20 inches long. Fetal development is nearly complete as your baby tends to a few last-minute details like shedding the skin-protecting vernix and lanugo. He's also producing more surfactant, a substance that prevents the air sacs in his lungs from sticking to one another once he starts to breathe. Most of the changes this week are small but important: He’s continuing to add fat (so he can take advantage of all those photo ops by sporting a round, cute baby look!) and fine-tuning his brain and nervous system (so he can deal with all the stimulation that awaits him once he makes his entrance into the world).

Your Body in Week 38 of Pregnancy
Just as your baby is preparing for life outside the womb, your body is tending to its own final touches before the big day, one of which is getting that milk machine up and running. Part of the process is producing colostrums, a thin yellowish liquid that's the precursor to breast milk. Colostrum is full of antibodies that protect your newborn, and it has more protein and less fat and milk sugar (the better to digest it) than the breast milk that arrives later. Chances are you're leaking colostrum so you might want to break out those nursing pads now. If you're not leaking but you are curious about this miracle substance, you can gently squeeze your areola to express a few drops.  None here yet.

Week 38 Pregnancy Tip: Stocking Your Freezer
Have visions of yourself, newly delivered domestic goddess, whipping up gourmet meals in those postpartum weeks? Dream on. Cooking will be the last thing on your mind or your to-do list during those first few weeks (make that months) after delivery. Trust me, fitting in a three-minute shower will trump it for sure, as will using the bathroom when the urge strikes. To avoid serving Cheerios for dinner on a nightly basis (realistically, there will be nights when you will), plan ahead. Do some cooking and stock your freezer now with individually packaged, simple heat-and-serve options that you (or he!) can get on the table in a flash. Label carefully, so you won't be left with UFOs (unidentified frozen objects). Good candidates for the freezer include hearty soups, stews, and casseroles, as well as mini–meat loaves. Have the baking itch? Satisfy it, and stash away several trays of bran muffins (don't ask, you'll need them). Another plan-ahead tip? If you don't already have your favorite takeouts on speed dial, now's a good time to enter them.  I have not done this, nor do I have the energy to do this.  I know later it will be even worse, but we'll manage.  I'm also hoping when my MIL is here, she might stock us up a bit.  That'd be great.  However, if anyone wants to drop dinner off, I'll be happy to eat it!

And while we're at it, I'll add another article I found that was interesting.
A Tour of Your Baby's Developing Body
Have you ever wondered how well a newborn baby can hear or see? Take this tour of the baby body and find out how a little one develops.
All parents want their newborn baby to be healthy and perfect. So it’s not surprising that new parents have a lot of questions when it comes to their baby’s developing body.

While it’s true to some degree that a baby is like a miniature version of mom and dad, newborns may experience the world quite differently than an adult does. A lot of the senses and body functions aren’t fully formed when a baby is born, and it takes time for these abilities to develop.
The easiest way to make sense of what a newborn experiences is with a tour of the developing body, starting with the head. We recruited two top pediatricians to serve as tour guides to baby development.

The Newborn Baby’s Head
Looking at your baby’s head, you’ll probably want to make sure those little ears and eyes are working right. Johnnie P. Frazier, MD, associate professor of pediatrics at the University of Texas Health Science Center at Houston, says that babies can actually hear fairly well when they’re born. “Hearing tests are done at birth to assure this function,” Dr. Frazier says.
A baby’s eyes, however, take a little time to adjust to their new surroundings. “Newborns can only focus 8 to 10 inches in front of them,” Frazier says. “They like to focus on the human face, and prefer simple black and white images to more complex images. Primary colors become more stimulating about two months later.”
You’ll also notice when looking at your newborn baby that the skull isn’t fully formed. “The fontanel, which is the soft spot on the top of a newborn's head, is present until a baby is 9 months to 2 years of age,” says Hannah Chow-Johnson, MD, assistant professor in the department of pediatrics at Loyola University Medical Center in Chicago. “There’s a smaller soft spot on the back of the head that closes by age 6 months.”
New parents may also wonder when their baby will start getting teeth. While babies are born without visible teeth, the development of baby teeth begins in the womb. The basic structure of the teeth and the hard tissue around each tooth is formed by 3 or 4 months of fetal development. A baby’s first tooth (bottom front incisor) will likely make an appearance through the gums at around 7 or 8 months of age. The top front incisors should follow about a month or two later.

The Newborn Baby’s Body
Many of the bones in a baby’s body are primarily made up of cartilage at birth. This makes them flexible yet very strong. But don’t be surprised if your baby looks curled up. “Infants look like little frogs when they’re born, keeping their arms, legs, and hips flexed,” Dr. Chow-Johnson says. “As they mature neurologically, they’ll start relaxing their arms and legs, which become more extended.”
Another common question parents have is about a baby’s skin. “Parents may be concerned with their newborn’s skin peeling or feeling dry,” Frazier says. “Physicians reassure parents that this is normal and no additional oil is necessary.” A small amount of water-based lotion, such as Lubriderm or Eucerin, is fine, she adds. You may notice a spot in the middle of baby’s chest called the xiphoid process. “This looks like a small bump in the middle of the chest and is an extension of the sternum,” Chow-Johnson says. “This is normal, but it looks more prominent in infants.”

The Newborn Baby’s Immune System
Most newborn babies are born with a functional immune system, however it’s not fully developed. “The immune system is partially protected by the transfer of maternal immunoglobulins into a newborn’s circulation until approximately 6 months of age,” Frazier says. But a baby’s immunity system has yet to build up antibodies from a lifetime of exposure to germs, so great care must be taken to prevent your newborn from becoming sick. “Parents, other caregivers, family, and friends will need to be careful to wash their hands before handling a newborn and should avoid contact if sick,” says Frazier. “Newborns don’t localize infection as well as older infants, so taking precautions to protect them from possible infections is important.”

Baby Development Signs to Look For
A newborn baby’s body moves and reacts differently than that of older children, and newborns have some reflexes that older children don’t have. Chow-Johnson shares some reflexes you may see in your newborn baby:
  • Startle reflex. The arms and legs extend completely, usually in response to sudden movement or sound.
  • Asymmetrical tonic neck. This is also called the fencer's reflex. If you move a baby’s head to one side, the arm it’s facing will extend while the other arm flexes, so the baby will look like it’s fencing.
  • Babinski reflex. This happens when you tickle an infant’s foot in an upward motion, causing the toes to fan out.
“All of these reflexes normally disappear by age 4 to 6 months,” Chow-Johnson says.
Other early signs of baby development to look for include smiling, making speech sounds, and starting to lift up the head. These all happen at about 1 month. By 2 months, a baby will make more extended sounds and begin to get better at tracking you with its eyes. By 4 months, look for rolling, cooing, and laughing.
As a new parent, you’ll watch your baby’s body move and change with delight. If you have any questions or concerns about baby development, be sure to talk with your baby’s doctor.

Interesting, huh?  Lots of stuff that we learned in our classes. 

To add more stress to our lives, J was told he has to drain the pool today because the water is too old.  He's been battling with it for awhile now, and while it's clean, it's also green.  No algae, all the levels are right.  But it looks like someone dumped lime jello into our pool.  Well, at least it will be done before Reese gets here so after she does, we're good to go.  This baby is gonna be in the pool as soon as the doc gives her the okay!

Have a wonderful weekend folks!